Why I Hated The Last Season of The Office

So I’m probably one of the last people out there to watch The Office (what can I say I’ve been living under a rock), but it was one of my goals for the new year to finish watching every single episode of the show which spanned the course of nine seasons. I started watching the show around the time I was finishing my undergrad and I quickly understood why it’s such a favorite. But I have to admit that in contrast to prior seasons, the last season just wasn’t as good in my opinion. Hear me out – it wasn’t all bad, but there were definitely things I thought could’ve been better about this cult favorite show’s final season.

The Bad, The Good and The Ugly

First off, I really hated the way that Andy just up and left everyone (especially Erin) to be on a boat/in the Bahamas for three months! I know comedic writing makes sure to incorporate the foibles of characters, but it just seems rude that Andy would make such a profound misstep after telling Erin that he loved her, by acting like such a jerk during season nine. One of my other gripes about the last season were the conflicts between Jim and Pam. I really felt uncomfortable with the way Jim was splitting his time between Philly working for his company Athlead, and working in Scranton part-time at Dunder Mifflin. All while Pam was left to hold down the fort as a single mother. I was conflicted – I wanted Jim to follow his dreams, but also I could see the strain being put on Pam and felt sympathetic for her. Especially as there were several moments during the season that I felt Jim was being really dickish to Pam unnecessarily (say for failing to get a video of Cece’s ballet recital)! I just felt like after watching Andy and Jim for so long, they suddenly were acting completely out of character. Here were two guys who at one point, would have done anything for the women they loved. Everyone is entitled to their missteps in life but it just felt like too much. Long gone were the twelve days of Christmas and teapots with secret love notes.

It was hard (that’s what she said) to watch the ninth season with the roller coaster ride that Angela and Dwight’s story lines had become in the final season. Angela finds out that Robert is cheating on her with Oscar, but she continues a short lived facade of a happy marriage to The Senator. Dwight then asks Angela for assistance caring for his elderly aunt as the two reconnect, but any hopes of the two reuniting are squashed by Angela’s mention of her husband Robert. Dwight soon ends up romantically pursuing his neighbor Esther while Angela’s marriage to Robert continues to unravel when during a televised press conference he comes out as gay. The results end up providing one of the sweetest moments from Oscar as he offers a place to stay after Angela is evicted.  It’s difficult because you just know that Angela and Dwight belong together!! The will they, won’t they of their relationship extends dangerously close to the end of the final season. I’m just happy there was a happy ending, or this entire post would be one long bitch about how they belong together!

Another area of frustration for me was the warehouse mural. Pam’s artistic skill is so underappreciated throughout the show and few really seem to acknowledge it (I’m still a little choked up from Michael’s reaction to Pam’s paintings in the Season Three episode “Business School”) so when someone defaced the mural (with butts, really?!?) that she was working on in the warehouse it really bugged me, but then we find out who did it. Is it just me or does Brad William Henke (who portrays new warehouse worker Frank) play the whole douchey antagonistic type of character really well as evident by his character in Orange Is The New Black? Things were definitely made better when we were provided another sweet instance of Pam and Dwight teaming up as they painted on his truck together. It can’t be said enough – Dwight and Pam’s friendship throughout the show is seriously underappreciated!!

This might be controversial, but for me, one of the highlights of season nine was the exit of Ryan Howard’s character. I did miss the sass that Mindy Kaling’s Kelly Kapoor brought to Dunder Mifflin, but I’m not going to lie – I absolutely couldn’t stand Ryan so I may have clapped when it was mentioned by Toby that he had left (sorry, not sorry)!!

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In a 90s Kinda World, I’m Glad I’ve Got My (DVDs): Physical Media in a Digital Age

I’m a creature of habit. In most scenarios, I don’t like change. Change taunts my anxiety and makes me feel threatened, uncomfortable, and like I have lost whatever control or trust that I might have had. I love a good routine and dependability. Knowing that I can trust a certain aspect of my environment to be consistent is incredibly valuable to me. When I turn on the television at night, I take comfort in seeing The Golden Girls, or Frasier on my screen. Not only are they funny and entertaining, but they’ve become reliable aspects of my routine. I enjoy watching my sitcom reruns, but more than that, they keep me company late at night when I often struggle to find comfort, or sleep.

I’ve always had a pretty dysfunctional relationship with sleep – I remember as a kid closing my eyes and thinking, OK, if I fall asleep right now, I can get five hours of sleep before I have to get up for school. I got in trouble for reading in bed by the light coming through my window, or seeping in my room from another You’ll ruin your eyes!, my mom would scream. Check mate mom – I’ve worn glasses for years (though, I DON’T wear them for reading). I used to love going to sleepovers at my maternal grandmother’s house because she was a night owl. We’d watch I Love Lucy together, or The Golden Girls. We’d head to the grocery store at midnight, cruising around and stopping for DIY sandwiches in the car made from the deli and fresh bread we had bought. Sometimes I wonder if I’m not as much an insomniac as much as someone who just isn’t meant to ascribe to normal sleeping patterns. I’ve come to realize it’s sort of a family thing – my aunt, mother, and sister are all night owls. The difference being for them, is that they can all fall asleep quickly. Me on the other hand, not so much.

Which brings me back to my beloved sitcoms. I welcome their company every night because they’re so familiar. Often times, I find myself lying awake not simply due to insomnia, but because of painsomnia. My joints, nerve pain, or some other discomfort like to keep me awake at night. So having Rose Nylund, Roz Doyle, or even Lucy and Ethel to hang out with me is a nice comfort. But come October, I find myself at a loss because Hallmark likes to go crazy for Christmas and removes their overnight sitcom reruns in favor of their Christmas movies. So I surf around looking for other sitcoms to take comfort in. Luckily there isn’t much of a shortage, and I am grateful that multiple channels air them. During Christmaspalooza, I’m often watching The King of Queens, Friends, Everybody Loves Raymond, The New Adventures of Old Christine and others.

Christmas has come and gone, and generally, the start of January means that Hallmark goes back to their regularly scheduled programming. This year? Not quite. They’ve changed the schedule, eliminating shows, extending some and reducing others. This creature of comfort was not happy. But I’m not writing this just to bitch about how a television network messed up my routine (although, they did and I’m not gonna lie – I’m bitter about it), I’m writing this because it got me to thinking about a larger issue that has been on my mind a lot recently: digital vs. physical media.

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Build With Us! Sims 4 Build Challenge – January – #Sims4PubCrawl

It’s a new year and I’m excited to introduce a new series to the blog with Sims 4 monthly builds. You may know I’ve been playing The Sims since its initial series of games (I still have the complete The Sims game disc and can remember the graphics that seem so primitive in contrast to the game today), but I feel like despite the many (many) years that I’ve been playing, I very rarely share what I’m up to in the game, or the builds that I create.

So I’ve decided to create a thing! I was thinking that in a way to get myself to share my creations, we could all do it together. Starting this month, I plan to share a different themed build on the blog each month. I’ll be uploading each one to the gallery and I hope that you will feel inspired to join in and do the same!

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Goodreads 2019 Reading Challenge + January TBR

Last year I ended up reading 38 books – surpassing my goal of 30 for the year. Despite not reading for long chunks of time (hello, grad school), I feel pleased with my progress and like I have successfully found *some* of my reading mojo again. Reading has always been a huge love of mine, but life and school have often gotten in the way of it over the years. This year, I’m stepping up that goal because I want to really focus on making reading not just something I make time for, but something that I consistently make time for.

I view reading as not just entertainment, or an educational tool, but also as a means of self care – a way of distracting me when perhaps I’m not feeling my best. Whenever I go through a period of time where I don’t pick up a book, I feel off – like some part of my routine is missing or unsatisfied. I can’t promise that I will read (for pleasure anyway) every single day, and I know that when school is back in full swing, there’s likely to be many days where I don’t pick up a book. But my hope is to try and read at least a little bit every single day!

In 2019, my Goodreads goal is to read 50 books.

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The 12 Episodes of Christmas: 12 Must-See Sitcoms for the Holidays

Can you believe there are only eight days until Christmas? That means that there are only eight days to figure out last-minute gifts, wrap them, and perhaps most sad to me – only a few days left of my new favorite Moser Roth chocolate truffle advent calendar. One of my favorite things to do during the holiday season is giving myself the gift of some self-care and R&R (rest and relaxation) and that’s definitely true this year after wrapping up my first semester of grad school. I can’t think of a better way to relax than kicking back with my sitcoms (unless you add some advent truffles into the mix). Before you set out cookies and milk for the Big Man, here are the 12 Episodes of Christmas to get you in the holly jolly mood!

Frasier – “Perspectives On Christmas” (S5, Ep. 9)

This episode shows how things go awry for many of the characters through the course of one week leading up to the holidays, but arguably one of the best parts is the late John Mahoney attempting to sing “O Holy Night”.


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Hitting The Breaks on Fast Fashion: Going on a Clothing “Low-Buy” in 2019

I’m no Carrie Bradshaw, but I own a lot of clothing.


Of course, giving into the typical cliche, I also hate wearing a lot of what I own. It sits in a drawer year after year, but whenever I do a clothing clear out, there are always those pieces that despite never being worn, make their way back into my dresser. Because of my constant state of underwhelmed, I buy a lot of clothing throughout the year. Much of it is fast fashion, which I am drawn to due to style, sizing, and of course: cost.

I’m not alone in this, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the average American household spends roughly $1700 a year on clothing. Yikes! While, I don’t think that my spending is quite that high, it’s still more than I’m comfortable with it being. Especially because when it comes down to it, I feel like I’m still where I started: feeling like I don’t really have anything to wear.

Of course, I have some favorite pieces, but I also find myself frequently feeling like I just don’t have *the right* piece, or like I have nothing to wear, when in reality, I probably have plenty. Fast Fashion has sucked me in – and while I absolutely see why it’s a problematic industry (environmental concerns and issues in regard to labor being top areas of concern), I also know why it’s been largely where I’ve shopped my entire life.

When I first starting buying clothing for myself, I wanted as much as I could get for the little bit of money I had to work with. I used to love this show on TV where they’d give someone $100 to find an entire outfit from whatever stores were in the mall – only, I used to scoff thinking how I could have done the same – easily with a third of that. Now that I’m older, I’m open to spending more, but I still struggle with my need and desire to be frugal. It’s hard for me to dish out for a pricier item knowing I could likely find a cheaper alternative. I’ll say it: I love Target and Old Navy! I’m not a fancy person by any means, and generally my style is all about comfort, so these places are perfect for me.

There’s also the issue of sizing.A study in the International Journal of Fashion Design, Technology, and Education found that the average American woman is a size 16-18. This might be the only instance in which I can say that I’ve average. I actually do not find this statistic surprising at all. Real women are largely underrepresented in the world of fashion – that is if they’re represented at all. The issue for me, comes from the fact that despite this statistic, women of this size (and above) are largely still corralled to the back corners of the fashion world – that is, if stores carry our size at all. Often, we’re forced to shop online. There are plenty of stores that will take my money, but which would rather I didn’t come in and shop (but perhaps this is a rant for a different day).

 Between sizing and cost, I have come to appreciate fast fashion as a means of finding clothing that works for me and my budget. Fast fashion also feels more accessible. It’s everywhere. So I totally understand and get the appeal of fast fashion, and the desire to shop for clothing continually, despite whatever might be piling up in my wardrobe at home. We live in a society where we are meant to desire new and more on a constant basis, and I’m definitely guilty of this. I love shopping!! However, I’d be lying if I said that every new piece of clothing I brought home helped to fill some void. I find myself frequently justifying new purchases saying that I don’t have a shirt like that in that specific color, but then the reality is that I’ve got plenty of items which I’ve only worn once – or never at all.

Like many others, I often go through my clothing to weed out what I no longer want. Pieces become too big or too small, or perhaps are no longer our taste. We don’t like the way a particular piece looks on us, or the fabric texture drives us mad (looking at you LuLaRoe). According to The Atlantic, Americans send roughly 10.5 million tons of clothing to landfills every year. I don’t know about you, but I find this statistic to be incredibly disturbing. Personally, I very rarely throw a piece of clothing away, but this statistic still stands out to me, and I know that despite my best efforts, that much of what I donate could still be ending up in a landfill at some point. Clothing wears out sometimes, or gets damaged beyond repair – but 10.5 million tons every single year?? I think that points to a much larger issue than durability.

As I sift through the emails for $5 Pajama pants, free shipping, and 60% entire stores – all telling me I NEED the clothing they’re selling, I’ve been thinking. Honestly, I’m overwhelmed by the amount of clothing that I have – particularly because I likely only have an interest in wearing half of it. I hoard things I feel attached to, but which I’ll likely never wear again. I buy clothing when I feel bummed, or like I need some sort of pick-me-up. Of course, sometimes its that I’m drawn to a style I don’t have, or an item that is limited edition. Whatever my reasons for shopping, it’s got me feeling guilty. On a micro level, at the end of the day, I just don’t feel satisfied with my spending habits when it comes to clothing. After all the shopping I do, I still find myself feeling unhappy with my wardrobe, or like I have “nothing to wear”. On a more larger level, I think its much more complicated – there are ethical, and environmental ramifications for this fast fashion industry, and I’m not sure I feel okay being a part of that.

Which is why I am going on a clothing “low buy” for 2019.

A LOW-BUY?? Why am I not going on a no-buy??

I don’t intend to stop clothing shopping 100%. I don’t see that as realistic or maintainable in the long run, and I feel that after a no-buy period, I may just continue my habits without any changes. A low buy however, means that I will still be buying clothing, but that I’m going to be drastically changing my clothing buying habits.

Here’s the plan:

  • I will not be shopping for new clothing online or in traditional stores*
  • I will only be shopping second hand for clothing.
  • I will do regular clothing inventories to see if I’ve got items I no longer want – which I can then resell or donate.
  • I will track my clothing spending for 2019.
  • If I deviate from this plan at all, I will disclose that here!

*The exception here would be for underwear, bras, socks, and leggings.

I hope that doing this is a learning experience for me. I want to be more conscious of my consumption, and try to make more mindful purchases! I will be documenting my journey in 2019 here on the blog as both a means of “checking in” on myself, as well as sharing my experience with others, so you can expect regular posts. If you have any ideas, questions, or suggestions, please leave a comment.


Is It TV, Or Is It Me?

I hear a lot of talk about how television as we know it is threatened or, “under attack”. Apparently people are leaving cable in droves and opting for streaming services. Ratings are down on many television programs/networks, and often, I hear that my generation is to blame (because Millennials ruin everything, duh). But I don’t think its as simple as blaming any particular demographic, or even finding fault in new technology. I think the problem is far more complex.

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